How Do You Get Him to Ask You Out?

Dear Bro Jo,

I'm kind of infatuated by this guy that I see at YSA dances. I hardly know him, but I'm almost at the verge of obsession with him. I am obviously lusting over him, I know that. I really want to get to know this guy. But the thing is, there is possibly no way for me to get to know him. He is not in my Stake; I have no friends that actually know him.

So my question is, how can I get this guy to notice me, especially when we would never cross paths except when we have YSA dances. I've read all your other blogs that suggest that a girl should never ask a guy out and I've also read your blogs of how to get a guy to notice you, but those blogs would not fit the situation that I am in. How do you approach someone you don't even know and tell them "Hey I like you, ask me out on a date". ???

HELP PLEASE.....

Sincerely Desperate YSA.



Dear Sincerely,

Exactly that.

You go up and say "Hey, you look like a guy who should ask me out on a date".

If that sounds like too big of a leap, you'll have to get to know him somehow. Go up and talk to him at these dances. Find out where he works and if it's appropriate stop by. Look him up on Facebook, get into the same institute class. Sometimes the universe will put you together, but sometimes the universe needs a little help.

Be careful not to cross that fine line between "interested girl" and "stalker", but make some effort. If you don't you may always regret the one that got away.

- Bro Jo