Dear Bro Jo,
Hello again!
I know I've sent you some rather melodramatic letters in the past, but I hope you'll forget those and help me with something that I think is a real issue, for me at least.
What do you do with a guy that is kind, mature and athletic, but is used to having girls swoon over him and so he just treats them all exceedingly nicely, but not really genuinely?
That sounds awfully confused . . .
This guy is nice and definitely attractive to me in more than just the physical way, but he doesn't want to let anyone in.
He's nice, but doesn't want to share who he is with someone.
What do I say or do so he knows I really want to get to know him as a person, and not just as eye candy?
Any light you can shed would be appreciated.
- No Clue
Dear Clue,
You talk to him.
Often.
About meaningful things.
With sincerity.
Show him that you're interested in him as a person, not just superficially.
Don't "hang out"; you want to be a pretty girl that cares about him, not a buddy.
Encourage him to take you on some fun dates.
Oh, and be understanding.
If he's pre-mission he shouldn't be looking for anything too serious.
Respect that.
- Bro Jo
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