Dear Bro Jo,
So, I'm an RM guy going to college.
There have been two times in my life where I've been pretty sure a girl liked me. One was my freshman year. All the normal things: we talked alone for a few hours the first time we met (in a public place, don't worry), she texted first, we did lots of things together, and she was pretty flirtatious. Turns out, she had a boyfriend this whole time.
Pretty recently, a different girl was dropping some serious hints: playful pushes, sassy smirks, the whole shebang. One day, she mentioned that she was single. Three times. She mentioned that she wanted a certain guy to ask her on a date. So I take the "hint" and ask her on a date. She says no.
In both situations, I told friends (both guys and girls) about the things she said/did (honestly, no embellishing) and was told, "Yeah, she wants you to ask her on a date!"
Am I just forever doomed to being led on? Am I doing something wrong?
- Name Withheld
Dear NW,
I don't think you're doomed. I just think you happened to have had two bad experiences in a row.
Might happen . . . I don't know . . . a thousand more times . . .
Any clear thinking individual would think these girls were interested in you. I have no idea what their deal was.
But I promise you that there are lots of girls out there that are not like this.
Might take a few more misses to find one . . . but it's worth it!
- Bro Jo
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