tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post1797433251420335981..comments2024-03-23T19:56:39.134-06:00Comments on Dear Bro Jo . . . : She Who Hesitates is LonelyBro Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-91588795162716084012014-03-07T12:24:47.206-07:002014-03-07T12:24:47.206-07:00The best 'get a guy to hold my hand' line ...The best 'get a guy to hold my hand' line ever came to me in the middle of a VERY long movie, where hand-holding was likely, but moving VERY slowly. I looked at him and said, "You don't have to hold my hand if you don't want to." And BOOM! - he grabbed it. It gave him an out, but let him know that I was willing.<br /><br />Also, I had a sit-down talk with my now husband after the 3rd date (where he had kissed me). We saw each other every day that weekend and he kept kissing me, but nothing was discussed as far as 'titles'. So we met for lunch the following Monday, and I said, "Look, I need to know where we stand. Because if you still want to be dating other people, You'd better stop kissing me."<br /><br />Normally I'm not quite so up-front, but not knowing what was going on in his mind was worse to me than not having the conversation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-52846741558162069482014-03-07T12:00:02.014-07:002014-03-07T12:00:02.014-07:00I can testify of this. I have been friend zoned m...I can testify of this. I have been friend zoned my entire life. Even by the guy I'm dating. The reason I'm even with him right now is because we weren't afraid to be perfectly honest about how we feel. Don't make it a big deal, but definitely ask him. =) Good Luck!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12213623119496267110noreply@blogger.com