tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post2827317963219127541..comments2024-03-23T19:56:39.134-06:00Comments on Dear Bro Jo . . . : Why Won't the Girl He's Been Dating Commit? (Part 1)Bro Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-41233947068332956662015-02-05T12:44:40.086-07:002015-02-05T12:44:40.086-07:00There are a lot of factors to be considered, but i...There are a lot of factors to be considered, but if an adult couple is well past the first few dates / months, and either person is unwilling to be exclusive, then they don't care about the other person as much as themselves. They're using that person as a "place holder" until "someone better comes along".<br /><br />Which I find cowardly and unfair and immature.<br /><br />When you realize that you're someone's back up plan, you need to do yourself a favor and get out of that relationship right away.<br /><br />- Bro Jo<br /><br />PS: If you'd like some specific advice for your particular situation, please send me an email.<br /><br />dearbrojo@gmail.comBro Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-47204138313154330762015-02-05T12:29:53.216-07:002015-02-05T12:29:53.216-07:00What would you suggest in a similar case if it'...What would you suggest in a similar case if it's two young single adults in which, at least the guy, is a return missionary? Maybe not with the same reason that the girl in the original post gives, but the same situation in which a girl a guy has been dating won't commit?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com