tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post3960619640923456284..comments2024-03-23T19:56:39.134-06:00Comments on Dear Bro Jo . . . : Dateless at BYUBro Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-818386442630384522012-10-22T06:57:23.015-06:002012-10-22T06:57:23.015-06:00Hmmm . . .
Bitter?
Pig??
Probably does more si...Hmmm . . . <br /><br />Bitter?<br /><br />Pig??<br /><br />Probably does more sitting at home playing video games than actually dating???<br /><br />Tough to say . . . <br /><br /><br />Sure, there's some value in pointing out that being positive and doing the best you can with what you've got helps you attract the opposite sex, but this dude is:<br /><br />A) totally wrong about his stats<br /><br />B) demeaning<br /><br />C) likely all talk and too superficial to find a great girl anyway<br /><br />- Bro Jo<br />Bro Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-16701336825579961892012-10-21T00:11:36.435-06:002012-10-21T00:11:36.435-06:00If guys are interested, we will ask. 90% of the gu...If guys are interested, we will ask. 90% of the guys date 10% of the girls. Just because we guys don't ask YOU out does not mean we don't ask girls out. We may not want to lead you on with a date, because you might see it as a big deal since you don't go on dates often. Learn to be one of the 10% and guys will ask you out :) yeah you're "amazing faultless perfect and better than men, someone who doesn't need to earn respect but inherits it simply for being a girl", but sorry hun that's not the problem. The problem is that you have competition: you have a ton of girls just like that, and we guys go for the ones we like most :) you need to change to be more attractive to guys, fast! Because if you don't, you can complain about a lack of dates but we guys won't notice: we'll be out on dates with the 10% :-DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-10737693224417302692012-06-28T14:06:11.292-06:002012-06-28T14:06:11.292-06:00I actually was the one who wrote this letter. I di...I actually was the one who wrote this letter. I didn't go out of my comfort zone to feel better about myself. I don't need guys to feel good about myself. I did it so that I didn't miss out on an amazing opportunity. Talking to more guys led me to a relationship that ended up breaking my heart but I am so grateful for it. It taught me so much and helped me realize who I want to be. I was rejected but it made me stronger. Now I have met a wonderful man who I get to marry in the temple in two weeks. I am so grateful for all of my experiences as they have helped me be ready to meet my spouse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-40747454124989297032012-06-28T08:46:03.690-06:002012-06-28T08:46:03.690-06:00I disagree with the 'she got out of her comfor...I disagree with the 'she got out of her comfort zone to feel better about herself' comment. I believe she got out of her comfort zone because she wanted to change her current situation - to go from no dates to 'dating' - and change begins with YOU no one else. This had nothing to do with how she felt about herself and if anything putting herself out there means she thinks quite a lot about herself and she is absolutely right...mad props and respect to that. <br /><br />Rejection is a part of life. The best things never and shouldn't come easy (that said I have only been rejected once and in hindsight he was doing me a favour)<br />kudos to you for finding a comfortable and rewarding life that you feel works for you but personally I would rather 'live' than 'exist and heartbreak and rejection are a small part of the journey of living.Josiahttp://www.evolutionparenting.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-44927769880580050012012-06-28T08:05:29.433-06:002012-06-28T08:05:29.433-06:00This comment above is revealing. And taken in con...This comment above is revealing. And taken in conjunction with the other comment you made . . .<br /><br />http://dearbrojo.blogspot.com/2012/03/asked-to-prom-but-she-doesnt-want-to-go.html?showComment=1339469208352#c3442107765048093047<br /><br />at the same time . . . well . . . it's pretty sad, really.<br /><br />Sitting on the sofa flipping channels every night may be comfortable . . . but it's not much of a life.<br /><br />- Bro JoBro Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-32760852630864956422012-06-11T20:41:39.173-06:002012-06-11T20:41:39.173-06:00Great story about lovely "Dateless" and ...Great story about lovely "Dateless" and how she got out of her "comfort zone" in order to feel better about herself.<br /> I guess that I got rejected by women so often ( people say I am such a wonderful guy) that I found my own comfort zone by living a very comfortable and rewarding life with no women involved at all. Kudos to Bro Jo!davenoreply@blogger.com