tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post6816388953390582797..comments2024-03-23T19:56:39.134-06:00Comments on Dear Bro Jo . . . : A Guy's Dating Questions - Part 3: Being a Good ConversationalistBro Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-92220836366904084442014-04-04T22:19:57.292-06:002014-04-04T22:19:57.292-06:00Wow. That sucks.
- Bro JoWow. That sucks.<br /><br />- Bro JoBro Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525964417706399553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8729080532188674868.post-67288901872797431062014-04-04T21:28:43.645-06:002014-04-04T21:28:43.645-06:00As a woman that really roots for equality, I find ...As a woman that really roots for equality, I find it extremely offensive that you mentioned "In a show I saw recently I thought a really good point was made about guys wanting to fix or answer everything. The character said that men need to learn how to say those three little words when a woman complains . . ."<br />NO. Care enough to treat her as an equal and reply to her complaint. Don't have the attitude of "Oh, she's having one of those feminine complaints" but rather "How do I relate to this individual's thought?". If you don't agree with her and wish to avoid being unpleasant on a date, put yourself in her shoes like you would a new guy friend and THEN say something along the lines of "that sucks". Don't constantly dismiss or invalidate things that come out a girl's mouth. Listen to her as another human being and not a scary female and then your conversation will flow.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com