Not Calling Works!!!

Dear Bro Jo,

I hope you're not tired of hearing from me. :) I just wanted to send you a note of validation. In the past I've been a sucker for texting boys (and gasp! calling them occasionally). I liked to flirt a little, and it seemed like a casual way to let a boy know I was interested. But I decided to take a break from texting and calling boys to see if your advice really got results. Soooo..... last week I had a date, and this week I got asked out 3 times, and I have a date tomorrow. And another guy asked for my number. Must be my change in attitude or something. Or my mother's been praying for my dating life to pick up. Something like that.

Basically, I'm converted. :)

K

PS. In the past, I've sent a text the morning after a date that'd say "thanks again for the date last night! I had a great time." Is that appropriate?



Dear K,

Nope.

Nor is it necessary. Thank the guy at the end of the date and, if it went well, tell him you hope he asks you out again.

Thanks for the feedback.

Happy dating!

- Bro Jo