Dear Bro Jo,
Well I don’t think I love them. that one takes a while to develop for me. and thank you so much you did help me a lot.
- Unsure
Dear Unsure,
No problem.
Just let me say, that if you don't love either, then the decent thing to do would be to tell them.
Whether you do or not, you certainly need to keep dating others, too.
Good luck!
- Bro Jo
Dear Bro Jo,
I know they are both aware.
- Unsure
Dear Unsure,
Good.
But weird. I mean, I don't care how great you are, if I found out you were making out with my former mission companion I'd drop you like a hot rock.
In fact, I think this whole thing is weird. Not a big fan of guys dating girls that they met on their mission, let alone one they taught the Gospel to. I think it confuses everything.
I can't even fathom the future family discussions.
"Yes, children, I met your father when he was on his mission. He's the one that taught me the Gospel. Well, he and his companion. After the two of them were released I followed them home. Sure, it was a bit stalker-ish, but they were both so cute! I dated both of them for a while, but decided to marry your father because he was the better kisser. Who was the other guy? Oh, you know him; he was here last Thanksgiving. That's right; I used to make out with you father's friend Peter."
I hope they're both dating other people, too.
You don't have a problem with that, right?
- Bro Jo
Dear Bro Jo,
Yeah I have no problem with that.
- Unsure
Dear Unsure,
Then clearly you shouldn't be with either of them.
- Bro Jo
hmmmm...... the one line emails are a bit odd. I don't mean to be picking out the little details, but I know communication through the internet really is limited when trying to convey emotion. It is just important/respectful to try and communicate the best you can wherever you are, and that includes advise column emails Q&As. The single sentence response just tends to give the feeling that she's not happy with the answer, doesn't care what Bro Jo is saying anymore and wants to get him off her back.
ReplyDeleteBut I could just be over-analyzing things. Keep searching Unsure!