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Friday, March 25, 2016

She Needs to Repent . . .and So Does the About to Leave Missionary - Part 2 (When You're Depressed)

Dear Bro Jo,

I've been I guess depressed for a while for many reasons really and I can’t seem to get out of it.

- NW

Dear NW,

Depression is a very real thing, with several possible helps.

Some thoughts:

  - Have you talked with anyone about your depression?

  - Is your depression constant? Or does it seem to come in waves?

  - How do you deal with being depressed? What makes you feel better?

-  Do you find that you do things that actually make it worse?

BTW - Sister Jo is an advocate of eating ginger when depressed. Ginger cookies. Ginger snaps. Stuff like that. She swears by it.

- Bro Jo

Dear Bro Jo,

Ive mentioned it before to a couple people.

It seems to come in waves like when I go to bed and have time to think or sometimes at school I feel like breaking down and crying cuz nobody talks to me or sits with me or even really notices me.

Honestly being depressed kinda scares me.

I dont want to be like this like this isnt who I want to be.

A lot of the time talking about my past somtimes it makes it worse but at the same time it helps.

I cry a lot like almost every night.

I dont think I have ever tried ginger for it . . . hmm something to look into I guess right?

- NW

Dear NW,

Ginger is highly recommended. 

The other thing Sister Jo recommends, VERY Strongly, is Service.

Doing good things for others Always helps us feel better about ourselves.

I'm off to bed, but I'll be up early.

Feel free to email me whenever you need.

Even if it's just to vent.

Make that appointment with your Bishop!

And remember: you're a great and valuable person.


Because Heavenly Father says you are!

Let me know how things go.


- Bro Jo

Dear Bro Jo,

I love doing service!

Thank you so much.

I’m sure you will hear from me more.

Thanks again and I will make that appointment

Thank you

- NW

Dear Bro Jo,

Here is my big update!

I talked to my Bishop and I am now seeing a counsellor.  I think it is helping a lot!

This guy that left on his mission well I kinda liked him and he was saying he loves me and that he would wait for me after he is back and I am gone.

However today I found out he emails like thousands of girls and that is number one is his girlfriend who he told me was just his friend.

I kinda expected this because he cheated on his girlfriend with me and he cheated on me with the girl he is dating now... it is a huge mess.

Anyways I am really sad and wanted to get your opinion on things.

- NW

Dear NW,

My opinion is that you're well to be rid of him.

- Bro Jo

Dear Bro Jo,

I've been trying since the first time he hurt me.

But I think going on my first real and proper date with a guy I know is great will help.

- NW

Dear NW,


But remember that you are valuable all the time, whether or not you're in a relationship or some guy likes you.

- Bro Jo

Dear Bro Jo,

Thank you :)

You actually did help you got me re-excited for this date :)

- NW,

Dear NW,


- Bro Jo

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