Hi Bro Jo,
I have a girlfriend that really wants me to go and see a movie with just her and she has health problems and I don't want to go because I don't feel comfortable being with her because if she would start feeling bad I won't know what to do.
So how can I tell her nicely that I can't go with just her to see a movie.
Please help me.
- Name Withheld
I say this with love . . .
Grow up and be a better friend.
Look, if you're afraid that something might happen and you won't know what to do, ask her beforehand. Simply say "I'd love to go; is there anything I need to know, you know, should something happen?"
You'll get some education. She'll be glad that you care enough to ask. And you'll both enjoy a lovely time.
- Bro Jo