I have a problem, and it might be kinda confusing to write, but hopefully it will make sense.
There is this guy that I really like! He is in my ward, he is a worthy priesthood holder, SUPER nice, and pleasing to the eye.
We have become really good friends over the last couple of years, and my family teases me about him all the time. The only problem is he is totally dating a different girl, before his mission (he leaves in July) I know for a fact that he has kissed several girls, and made out with his current girlfriend.
I on the other had have never kissed or held anyone's hand because I think it really should be saved for someone special.
I really think he is fantastic and would love to date him in the future, but feel like some of his standards are not the same as mine.
Since we are such good friends, should I confront him about it, or leave it alone since it is none of my business?
Should I wait for him and get over the fact that he has done that? Am I being to much of a stickler on standards?
-Confused and currently alone
Very rarely is it a good idea to confess feelings you have for someone you're not in any kind of a relationship with to them, and never when they're in a serious relationship with someone else (even though I agree he shouldn't be), or dating everyone else but you, and never when he's about to leave on a mission.
As for him kissing other girls (and not you, which let's be honest, standards shmandards, is really your issue) . . . NO . . . you absolutely should not confront him about it. Frankly, as you said, it is none of your business.
And, NO, you should not "wait for him".
There's nothing wrong with you sticking to your standards.
But it's time you realize that this guy, great guy that he may be, is not smart enough to be interested in you romantically. You should be spending your years from now until the time you're old enough to Serious Single Date (that's after high school, Little Sister) going on all the Casual Group Dates you can.
- Bro Jo