Dear Bro Jo,
I've never kissed anyone else, but my biggest reason for not liking kissing him is that it's wet. He has only kissed one other girl before, his ex-fiancé who dumped him for joining the Church and he didn't like kissing her either. So I'm not sure if we just don't like kissing at all, or if it's just that we don't like kissing each other.
- Confused
Dear Confused,
Does it bother either of you that you don't like kissing each other?
For me that would have been a deal breaker . . . but if you guys don't care . . .
And not all kissing is "wet", by the way. When I was kissing the "sloppy kissing" girl I felt like I needed a towel. Not to be graphic, but to be clear, seriously . . . spit was everywhere. Now, looking back, I'd just chalk that up to two young people having no idea what they were doing.
I mean . . . not everyone knows how to kiss . . .
Have you seen this?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AWkjuHyDnI
It's a skill that can be learned.
- Bro Jo
Dating, Relationship and Other Advice for LDS Teens, Young Single Adults, and anyone else who could use a little help (since 2009) from someone who cares enough to give it to you straight.
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