Is it Time for a DTR? (part 2 of 3)

Dear Bro Jo,

Thanks for the quick response! Your guidance is so helpful!

One more thing... How might I show him that I am interested, in ways both verbal and non-verbal? I wouldn't say I'm bad at flirting but I don't exactly know how I can tell him I think of him as more than a friend.

I have even asked some of my girl friends and roommates how they think I could give an unmistakable green light (because guys usually don't get hints) and we are all stumped.

What should I do?

- Star




Dear Star,

Have you kissed him?

That's usually a dead give-away.

And I strongly recommend it.

If you're too shy, then do things like taking his arm when you walk places.  Look in his eyes when you're talking.  Invade his personal space.  Touch his arm, shoulder, knee when you're saying something to him.

Even the densest of RM's will clue in.

As for the verbal stuff . . . I find that nothing works better than talking.

Does that help?

- Bro Jo